My husband and I have a great time together - typically just the two of us. Whether it's making a Blue Apron meal, running/riding our bikes, relaxing with our favorite show or going on a date, our time is usually filled with a lot of laughs and love.
But again, it takes work. And sometimes, you need a gentle reminder to renew the spark. So, in that vein, here are some ways to reinvigorate your relationship and enhance your romantic connection. Check it out!
- Try a new hobby or sport together. Sign up for a photography class, or join a GoVavi league. Challenge yourself while spending time learning/doing something new.
- Vow to do something nice for your partner daily. This doesn't need to be a grand gesture; just a little something to showcase your love. For instance, if your partner typically takes the lead with the laundry, surprise him/her by starting a load. Or, if your partner is in need of a pick-me-up, leave a sweet post-it note on the steering wheel to let him/her know you care.
- Turn off the media! During dinner, conversation, dates. No phones. No emails. No television.
- Learn something new. Take a foreign language class together. Or, start a DIY project for the house.
- Commit to a date day/night each week. And this doesn't always mean a dinner out on the town. Or, this doesn't require money. Go for a hike/walk. Explore a new neighborhood. Make a meal together. Host your own game night. Make a commitment to spend at least one night/day a week with just the two of you - outside of work/house responsibilities.
- Dress up. Take time to look your best for your partner. Put some effort into your appearance to spice things up.
- Surprise your partner. Take action. Dates don't have to be a conversation or debate each week. Take the initiative and plan a surprise. Maybe it's a movie date. Or, a picnic at sunset. Don't ask. Just do.
- Learn to take social cues. Read the signs. If your partner is feeling neglected, or if the relationship is feeling stale, play your part. Make an effort to renew that passion.
